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How to improve your confidence in yourself?

Confidence, some people just ooze with confidence, and some people look like they could use some. If you are one of those people who could use some, you have come to the right place. Before I go ahead with the pointers on improving confidence within yourself, let help you understand why you need it in the first place. In one of my blogs, I discuss the power of words. If you wish to be someone who wants to run the world, you need to be confident in yourself. If you want to grow in your life, socially and professionally, you need to have confidence in yourself. But of course, you need to learn there is a fine line between confidence and being a stubborn bull. Being confident does not mean you stop taking suggestions and advice it means having faith in yourself and the work you are doing.  Always remember self-confidence is the key to your super Saiyan mode So, what can you do to improve your self-confidence?  Answer  1) Work on your lifestyle.  One of the common reason...

'Self obsession' vs 'Self love'

If you have ever said the following lines in your life, know that you are arrogant. Let me know in the comments if this sounds familiar " I will do what I want, I do not care about what you think about me" or "I love the way I am, I don't need to change" If these lines sound familiar then you, my friend are self-obsessed, you may think it is self-love or you being cool, but it is not. You are just being an arrogant person, who is self-obsessed and refuses to improve him or herself.  Now, I know I sound a little harsh in my tone, but I feel it has become very important for people to know the difference between self-obsession and self-love. Changing yourself for the better is not a bad thing . Self-love means to be open to criticism, to be open to improvements, to be open to make yourself a better person than yesterday. It does not mean you brag about your flaws. Let me explain to you with the help of an illustration; let's say you are a bad listener, now a fr...

Against the winds

Recently a wise old man told me, to never give up. He told me this when I was down on my knees; lost, defeated, and broken. When he said those words to me, I thought he just saying it to me because that is the right thing to say when you see someone down on the ground, but he did not just stop there. He continued saying, there is no such thing as 'bad luck'  it is only your mind that stops you from trying hard the next day, your own mind that tells you to feel defeated. If you put your heart and soul in something, even 100 days of defeat won't matter to you because the zeal that you would have in your heart to achieve that goal will be so much stronger than the feeling of defeat.  When you feel like things are not going according to your way or are against you; just stand still, breathe, and then plan your next move . You don't always have to fight the wind that is against you, sometimes all you have to do is stand ground, wait for a little and as soon as you see an ope...

Adulting 101

 Life is a cruel joke, and the worst joke of all time has to be the lie we told ourselves as we were kids, I remember saying to myself " I wanna grow up, and be an adult, and live a happy life ", oh how dumb we were as kids. Growing up was the biggest scam of our life, no one told us it was going to be this difficult or depressing in some cases, but hey, here we are. Now, no matter how bad adulting may seem it is a reality that we need to face. My adulting experience has been like a man who tried drugs for the first time or someone who is really really drunk; in simple words full of falls, changes, cluelessness, pukes (not quite literally), and bad a headache.  The reason behind creating this blog is because I wanted to share my life experiences, my lessons, and my story with the world. I may not be a very good writer, but I can write enough to tell you what it's like to live a life of change. In this blog, I will share short and simple things about my grown-ass life, why...