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How to improve your confidence in yourself?

Confidence, some people just ooze with confidence, and some people look like they could use some. If you are one of those people who could use some, you have come to the right place. Before I go ahead with the pointers on improving confidence within yourself, let help you understand why you need it in the first place. In one of my blogs, I discuss the power of words. If you wish to be someone who wants to run the world, you need to be confident in yourself. If you want to grow in your life, socially and professionally, you need to have confidence in yourself. But of course, you need to learn there is a fine line between confidence and being a stubborn bull. Being confident does not mean you stop taking suggestions and advice it means having faith in yourself and the work you are doing.  Always remember self-confidence is the key to your super Saiyan mode So, what can you do to improve your self-confidence?  Answer  1) Work on your lifestyle.  One of the common reasons for people to lac
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Against the winds

Recently a wise old man told me, to never give up. He told me this when I was down on my knees; lost, defeated, and broken. When he said those words to me, I thought he just saying it to me because that is the right thing to say when you see someone down on the ground, but he did not just stop there. He continued saying, there is no such thing as 'bad luck'  it is only your mind that stops you from trying hard the next day, your own mind that tells you to feel defeated. If you put your heart and soul in something, even 100 days of defeat won't matter to you because the zeal that you would have in your heart to achieve that goal will be so much stronger than the feeling of defeat. 

When you feel like things are not going according to your way or are against you; just stand still, breathe, and then plan your next move. You don't always have to fight the wind that is against you, sometimes all you have to do is stand ground, wait for a little and as soon as you see an opening, you run, you run like there is no tomorrow. Don't give up no matter how defeated you feel, when you feel like you have been knocked down get up, educate yourself and go fight again, but most importantly do it with a heart. 



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